What can we call my relationship with the Hunter? We are considering ourselves still a monogamous couple albeit living separately. The sex has been great. Sleeping alone and having our own space is also great. We talk and text several times a day.
He was the first person I called when I had a spider crawling across my car’s touchscreen as I headed down a rush hour highway last week. I killed that arachnid with my cute umbrella after trying my Yeti full of coffee. The Yeti just wasn’t the right weapon.
I am the first person he calls when he’s happy, frustrated, etc. He sends me a good morning text, usually calls during my commute and sends a good night text as well. The man is lovingly attentive, I must say.
Are you waiting for a “but…”? Nope, I don’t have one. I am just going with the flow. I am not trying to define this or create rules or anything else. I am just in the moment.
We have plans to spend Thanksgiving with some of his family. I will spend Christmas with Taz and my son while he takes off on a road trip with the Kracken. We have been seeing each other 2-3 times a week. Like I said above, the sex is great. I may have stumbled onto the right combination for us. Time will tell.
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Comments on: "What Do You Call It When…?" (5)
You’re in a relationship. Just be happy with the good that you have
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I think the trick is to not get caught up in the “should’s” and society’s expectations around how relationships need to look. There is no right or wrong in my opinion, for me it’s based on the idea of whether it’s meeting the needs of the people involved and creating happiness. If yes, then you are doing great!
I find it hard to talk to some friends about my relationship as they get caught up in the fact that I don’t want to live with him (or any guy) and that if it was really the right relationship I would want to live with him and be with him all the time etc. That’s the only part I have found frustrating, dealing with others expectations.
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Exactly! I’m done with adhering to society’s norms. It’s time to be selfish and do what the heck I want!
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Why try to define it? Sometimes trying to put something in a box does more harm than good.
Personally I say live the happy and let everything come as the universe intends 💕
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I agree 100%. I think you are absolutely right about labeling something creates constraints.
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