I’ll make love to you
Like you want me to
And I’ll hold you tight
Baby all through the night
I’ll make love to you
When you want me to
And I will not let go
‘Till you tell me to
Life with the Hunter continues to deepen and mature. Sex continues to also deepen and satisfy me. I had an interesting observation that I shared with the Hunter recently. I was thinking about the drought of celibacy I had during my marriage and how once I was free, my libido kicked up with a vengeance. It was like coming out of a desert and wanting endless amounts of water. I couldn’t get enough and was insatiable. Once I gained a great, stable sexual partner who wanted nothing more than to please me, I found myself settling down. I wasn’t so sexually needy. Don’t get me wrong, I still get horny and I want sex sometimes more than the Hunter does, but I am OK with that. It’s better than the alternative.
For example, when my son was in town, the Hunter and I fooled around once, but then we held off until my son left. The Hunter planned on this intentionally I later found out, because he wanted me to really want it. It made the sex all that more delicious. We took our time and thoroughly enjoyed one another. We started with the mental games and just talked about wanting one another, what we wanted to do, just intimate talk that lovers enjoy. Then we slowly moved into physical foreplay. The evening slowly moved into a deep, intimate love-making session that left both us sated mentally and physically. I never knew that I could have a partner who was so attuned to me and would bring me such joy and happiness.
Sometimes it is more about the Hunter. As he was driving home on a Friday afternoon he called me. “I have been watching porn and I want to cum in your mouth. Be nekkid and ready when I get home.” And so I was and it was delightful. I knew I pleased him immensely and later he pleased me as well.
As a contrast, the Hunter was spending the day with a friend and came back full of appreciation for me. Apparently his friend was bored with his girlfriend, but he didn’t want to break up with her because she was good to him and took care of him. However, they aren’t sexually compatible. She won’t even give him a blowjob. Seriously? OK, I know that I needed coaching in order to improve my blow jobs, and as I learned how to better deliver them, I also have grown to enjoy them more. The Hunter gave him some great advice – he has missed his calling as a dating coach. He told his friend to have her clean his dick so she knows that it’s fresh and clean. He also told him to visit my favorite website – Lady Cheeky – for some couple’s erotica. I listened to the story and laughed gently as I asked the Hunter, “did you have a girlfriend appreciation moment?” He laughed, hugged me and kissed me passionately. I think that answered my question.